To be fair, I don't think most people do.

[ Gods know Apollo didn't, and that was only because he flirted with anyone (and anything) that moved. ]

I mean, I met my boyfriend through the Network, but I met an ex back home because we both played the guitar, and then another - [ wait, how many boyfriends and girlfriends should a mortal have? ] Another friend had a shared hobby. It's really what you make of the situations you put yourself in.